Friday, January 20, 2012

White January

Unlike December, where it was relatively warm and sunny and we had almost no rain 'til Christmas and we were able to go to the zoo and the parks, January was almost the opposite. We had about 12 days of good weather and then it was down hill. White stuff started falling from the sky and piling up making it look like Christmas again. Hot cocoa was served everyday by the fireplace with goodies. It wasn't too bad, just cold and the kids even got the cold. But before we get there let's talk about the first part of January.

The first part of January I had my mom and my sister here until the 9th. They took Reena to school every morning and did most of my chores for me. My mother's cooking was great. We invited a couple over for dinner and had Pho. He served his mission here in Seattle, Vietnamese speaking so there was some connections there. My mom was the strong force for our hike into the woods by our house. We took her on a 2 hr hike. She thought we would just go down to the pond and maybe go into the woods for a little bit but there were several paths that we could've taken and we probably took the longest. My mother also had some time for a few craft projects with me. A photographer friend of mine, who took Christmas pictures for us, brought over some cushions and needed some cushion covers made. She knew that I sew so she asked me to make them for her and since she took our pictures for us I thought I would return the favor. She brought it over when my mother was here and so I had my mother sew it for her. My mother is amazing. She was a tailor for 20+ years before becoming a nail artist and she amazes me still. Isn't there anything she can't make just by looking at it? Amazing. I miss her.

Brie's preschool

A friend of mine who is a nanny to a kid in Debrie's gymnastics class told me about the co-op playgroup/preschool and got me to join. It is a group of about 15-20 parents, mostly moms and each take turn each week to teach a class. Each week there is a new theme and the last 4 have been trees, Chinese New Year, Firefighters, and Valentine's. Brie was not quite thrilled with the idea of 25-30 other kids in the same room with her, but after 2 or so she started to open up. She's usually our not shy kid unless she's in a room with a lot of people. She likes small groups much more.
Brie's also my logical kid, although her logic doesn't always make sense. She has an answer for everything you ask. She copies everything her sister does, which is why we think she started potty training at 15 months and talking at 18 months and in full sentences at 24 months. She's just so excited to come to this world. Her delivery took only 3 pushes. It shows.

Lately the kids found TOY STORY. Really it's both of the kids but more so Debrie. It's like when she discovered Tangled, Megamind, How to train your Dragon, Tinkerbell, and Wall-E, she asks to watch it over and over and over again. Every time I need quiet mommy time I would ask her what she wants to watch, it's one of the Toy Story movies. It will be this way until we buy a new movie.
Reena and BYU
Reena has become quite the BYU fan after the Oregon BYU game. She likes to point out everything that's BYU. My hat, her daddy's sweatshirts, my sweatshirt, our BYU blanket, our BYU flag and diplomas. So we took advantage of the opportunity right away for her to see more BYU stuff. There was a BYU vs UW rugby game at UW and when we heard of it we took the kids to see it. Reena was very happy to be there.
So fun to see white and blue everywhere among the purple.

Winter Wonderland (The biggest snow storm since 1985)
It's winter wonderland in January. The kids woke up and said "it's Christmas again mommy and daddy" and were amazed by all of the flakes that fell from the sky. And seriously I did feel like it was still Christmas; we hadn't taken down our tree.
A nature-made igloo on our light posts which if we had already put in the lights would not have created this.
There were more people out sledding down our road on a snowy day than there were people outside on a sunny day. The kids got sleds for Christmas and finally got to use it! We didn't think we wouldn't have to go up to the mountains, which is really 25 minutes away, but it was still very nice to just take the sleds outside and have fun!

We just sled down the driveway. It was so much fun!
Then we took it to the backyard. What a sweet slope to sled down.

We got 8 inches of snow! The heaviest snow storm since 1985!!!!!!

Snow Days crafts
Although we were sort of trapped inside for a week, we made use of our time with crafts or fixing things. Making fabric flower hair clips and headbands has always been a time waster for me. I find them to take a little more creativity than simply gluing flowers together. Reena's old enough now to join in on the fun. She got to cut up and made some with me on those snowy days.




Dan fixed up my cracked phone!
The other fun thing that happened during the snow storm was the brown-out and then black-out. We weren't sure how long it was going to go on for because some neighbors told us that last time it happened there was a power outage for 4-5 days. We weren't prepared. It was sort of scary. We had food in our pantry as we're trying to build up our year supply but we didn't have fuel. We checked our grill which we haven't used for a while and there was not enough propane left. So what to do, what to do?? Ah, we have lighter fluid and coals and a package of stakes. That was all this country girl needed! Yeah! I got out the wheel barrel, pulled up my garage door and wham, built a fire and heated up my left overs and cooked my warm pot of soup. My family was not eating cold sandwiches that day. We had warm soup and smores!! It was great!!! After lunch they cleared out the road and our nice neighbors with the four wheel drive drove Dan to Home Depot to get more propane for the gas grill. That night we used the stove on our grill to warm up our food.
That night we lit up about 9 candles and sat around the fireplace to read our scriptures and books. It was so much fun. We really appreciated that fireplace and came to appreciate electricity very much. The candle lit romanticism and the aroma the candles created was worth it for one night. I said one night because it was really only for one night. Seattle brought in hundreds of electricians to fix the power lines that were dragged down by the snow. That night at 9:00 pm we got our power back. We were all upstairs ready for bed when Dan noticed the porch light turn on and said to himself "why is the porch light still on" and immediately realized he had a blond moment and then laughed to himself and we both ran out cheering!! Yay for power!!! We felt very thankful for a warm shower the next day and light!!! Many of our friends in other parts near Issaquah did not get their power back until 3-4 days later. My handy man
I LOVE my handy man. He's my mechanic, my computer guy, my fence and wood working guy. He wasn't this way when I first married him but I definitely saw potential. We made a deal, I marry him, help him with his fashion and he in return becomes that man I need. He's a good man with a lot of potential and that's what I saw. He's also drop dead gorgeous in his 30's.

The last four Saturdays been busy for Dan. He spent a whole lot of time designing the fence and then spent a whole lot money on the wood for the fence and trellises. But we're saving a lot of money by having him do it rather than paying someone to do it. Although I did hire 2 Mexican guys to help carry those big 6x6 posts and dig the holes for him. We went with 6x6 instead of 4x4 because they look a lot more quality and are also prettier for the trellises, but they were HEAVY. I didn't want him to break his back for this. He also had a kid from our ward help him one Saturday. The kid is a 6'4'' 16 year old trying to earn some money for a trip to Vietnam for a cultural class trip so I hired him. I was impressed his parents wanted him to earn the money for this because his parents live in a million dollar home and are fairly rich people but they still value him working to earn the trip. Anyway he was a big help to Dan and kept him accompanied for an afternoon.


We worked 'til dusk every Saturday. Now the kids can go to the backyard and play without running out into the street.
Our matching outfits is fun and cute but the real art is standing in the background. He is one proud husband and daddy and maker of that fence. He used all of his tools for this project so it pays in the end. He just finished making a preschool table for us as well. I'm proud of my handy man.
They know how to have fun! Dan has been going into to work earlier and coming home earlier to work on the fence so when he's free, it's daddy trapping time.
The Met
Glee had another concert this month around the Lunar Year celebration. We didn't really celebrate Vietnamese New Year so this concert was sort of a replacement of it for me. There was a ton of food and a lot of people showed up. The Seattle Jazz Glee performed with us as well.
From left to right. Me, Soprano I. Theresa, Alto II. Kristen, Alto I. Nell, Soprano II.
My Goodies
One of the things the kids loved doing over the Christmas break was baking various different cookies and taking them to the neighbors each week leading up to Christmas. We didn't want it to be just a once a year event so we're starting it up again with baking goodies to give to families in the ward for Family Home Evening. I had them start with Warm Caramel Ginger Cake. Reena and Debrie measured the flour unassisted. It was sort of scary but it turned out so great. Our neighbors described it as "melt in your mouth delicious!" I don't know why I don't make this cake at every birthday party. It is really delicious. The real reason of course is getting the kids more involved in making Family Home Evening a success and for us to remember to do Family Home Evening.

I took this picture before I got the frosting on it. Last time I made it was for the Christmas party and it was gone in 5 minutes so I doubled the recipe and took some to visiting teachees and some neighbors.



Some things we've noticed living here: We're super young to be home owners. I mean I'm in my twenties and owning 2 homes. I feel a little out of place because the younger people we meet around here are in town homes still paying off their school debts. Big thanks to my parents for giving so much to us. They practically put Dan through school the last 2 years at BYU and put me through my master's degree.

I have a hard time sitting still. I love my new house and I love being in it. Some days I spend less time in it due to volunteering at Reena's school, gymnastics, preschool, playdates, etc... and I actually miss it when I spend a lot of time away. I realize that on busy days my laundry doesn't get done, folded and put away and that the dishes don't get done right away. But, I miss working and building up my resume. My biggest fear is when the kids are all in school and I can work that I wouldn't have much of a resume. Teaching preschool isn't really an ideal job so I'm looking for something around counseling. I only want to work maybe 10 hours a week or so. In other words, not much at all so that I could be a full time mom to my children. I've been looking and applying at a few places hoping for a few interviews just for the fun of it. In doing so I've really been appreciative of my husband and his job. He is such a great provider for our family and I'm so glad I'm his wife.

Amazon's Party
Amazon had their end of the year party just like they do every year. This time it wasn't at any museum. It was at CenturyLink Field which used to be QWEST field stadium. The theme was Carnival so they had people walking around on stilts, popcorn, cotton candy and a lot of food there. Several people in our last ward work for Amazon so we hung out together. The two bands they brought in, Out Like Pluto and Young the Giants were both great bands. We had a great night.




Reena's Kindergarten teacher whom I had become really good friends with had her twin babies this month. They were 15 weeks early. One of the twins didn't get enough nutrition and it was an emergency delivery in the attempt to save him but after 3 weeks he gave up fighting for his life. His daddy wrote a beautiful letter to him. It's so touching and made both Dan and I cry like babies. We are so sad for them. That kid had a purpose for being here on earth that short of time. He's touched a lot of lives, including mine. I want to have a lot of kids but I'm also afraid of things like this. I'm grateful for strong people around me for their experiences. I learn a lot from them.
I'm grateful for my little family. Even when they do silly things.
This is what happens around here when mommy takes a cat nap. My kids got creative with campell soup from the pantry.

A Little Big News of February
Ok I know it's February news but February is a good month. We had really good almost-a-Seattle-summer weather. We got up to the 6o's! But that's not why February is a good month. It's a good month because Reena LOST HER FIRST TOOTH!! We knew it was coming soon but we didn't know it was this soon. She lost it at school some time. She went to school with it and came home without it. She had no clue how she lost it. Must've been through the fruit snacks she ate. She might have eaten it. Who knows! But how funny. She had to write this IOU promissory note to the tooth fairy. I was very excited to help her. My facebook friends all chipped in to help. It's a very new tradition for me so I was in on it!

She got a silver dollar and a certificate from the tooth fairy!!! I'm a happy mommy!!

Saturday, January 14, 2012

Last month of 2011

December
December was a lot of fun. We did what everybody else did and decorated the outside of our house with wreaths, bells, garlands, lights, and even ornaments on our trees outside. It looked great. Dan took the time to wrap up big gift boxes and got the tree that we got when we were first married up on the plant shelf. We bought another tree to fill up the empty space in our living room and since we have 20 ft ceilings we thought, why not get a big tall tree. That was fun decorating. I had never had to get out a big full size ladder to put the ornaments on the tree before.
We're still waiting to do shutters in our living room. The trees distracted people from looking into our house too far, or so that was our hope. Our neighbor for some reason felt the need to apologize that he looks into our house whenever he walks the dog. Some people are too polite. It makes me laugh. Anyway we got shutters ordered now. They're expensive so there goes our trip to Hawaii and Danang, VN. Next year?

Gymnastics Winterfest

To kick off for the holidays Reena's gymnastics group put on a Winterfest. She performed beautifully and loves gymnastics. She misses dance a lot so we might sign her up for that again. She is loved by the kids in her class. One little girl, Rachel was especially a fan of her.



It is watching kids like Rachel that Dan realizes how white white kids are. He tells me regularly that he's happy he married me so our kids aren't so white. My husband cracks me up. I sometimes forget he's white until he brings up skin color talks. He has yellow fever.

Early Bird Christmas Party

Reena's class had a Christmas party that somehow again I got sucked into the party planning committee. Really I don't volunteer to do this. I'm fb friends with Reena's teacher and I think she saw my pics and asked me to put this party together. Thankfully there was another mom in the class who happened to also be a Mormon and in our ward who was able to help out. The kids had a lot of fun with all of my craft stuff that I brought in. I came in to take their class picture and took headshot pictures of the kids and printed and cut them out and then they made Christmas ornaments and inserted their pics to give to their moms and dads. They decorated cookies, ate them and did some scratch it art ornaments as well.


Glee Concert
The Met had a concert and sung all the songs picked out at the beginning of the year, some of which I had to learn in only 2 rehearsals due to me missing out during the stake musical. We also did some caroling as well. We raised about $1500 to donate to the Seattle Pike Place Senior Center. Great cause for the holidays.
The Nutcracker at McCaw Hall
It was also due to Glee that we got free tickets to see the Nutcracker at McCaw Hall in downtown Seattle. Tickets were $35 each and we got 2 free ones just because Glee sang during the intermission of the Nutcracker. The ballet was phenomenal. Makes me want to dance weeks after. The stage was amazing as were the dancers . McCaw hall was grand and beautiful.
The Nguyen Reunion
The biggest event of the month was probably the reunion. I call it the Nguyen Reunion but really it was just all of us getting together in one place for a period of a week. It had been a while since we all got together. The last time we all got together was 2 years ago when my sister got married. I was hoping we could all get together all at once but with everyone's tight vacation time it was sort of spread out. My sister Thao and her husband Alan arrived first and then my parents, brother Mike and sister Thuyen came the next day. After Christmas my sister Thanh from Utah came but my other sister and her husband had to leave. It was a short amount of time that we got to have everyone together but we managed to do some fun stuff while various different people were here. We went sight seeing, visiting friends from Portland, Oregon, ate and ate a lot of food. It was seafood again and again and again because, well, what better things to do than that when you're on the coast. We had so much fun doing crafts together, hanging and eating out, too. I love my family. Life is complete when I'm with them.





Hubby got a new suit custom made from my parents.







We were on the way to Portland Oregon to visit some friends and made a quick stop to take some pics. We used the tripod and I edited some lighting. Without much planning somehow we were able to coordinate the colors.

My mother turned 52 on January 1st. I love her birthday because it's right on New year so it gives you an extra reason to celebrate. When I was a teenager she would give me money to buy stuff for my birthday party and invite my friends over. This was the first time I threw her a birthday party. I also stayed up 'til 4 AM to cuddle up in bed with her (yah I'm still a baby) and listened to her war stories and crying my eyes out for hours. She is the most AMAZING person I've ever known. I'm going to write a book for her, my hero.

I got my wish this Christmas. A new house, new tree and everyone in my family came. I love my family. Heaven would not be heaven without them by my side.

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