Monday, December 2, 2019

Vietnamese Tet - Lunar New Year

           Tet is an exceptional holiday for Vietnamese. It is the biggest event of the year as everyone gathers together to welcome the New Year with their neighbors and family members. Loved ones come back home from far away for this special occasion. 
           The Vietnamese people will begin their preparations well in advance for the upcoming New Year. It starts with an event called "Chụp mã" where people will spend a few days cleaning their homes, the gravestones of ancestors, the ancestral altar, polishing every utensil and then inviting nearby friends and families to celebrate with a feast and religious rituals. From there, people begin to shop for things such as kumquat trees, branches of peach blossoms, and many other colorful flowers such as hoa Mai to decorate the house. The marketplace is especially a fun and exciting place to visit during this holiday because fresh and luscious fruits, candies, and gifts are on beautiful displays to attract customers from near and far. Children who have left home for jobs send money home for their parents as a way to show gratitude for their blessings. Every household buys votive paper clothing and accessories for the ancestors along with many other purchases such as new clothes like áo dài and shoes to wear on the first day of New Year. Workers are given end of the year money in red envelopes as they try to pay off debts and resolve all arguments among their colleagues, friends or family members. Children get red envelopes with money inside from family members and close family friends.  
          New Year's Eve when I was growing up included firecrackers and fireworks. Now it is celebrated with just fireworks as families gather around eating Banh Chung/ Banh Tet (sticky rice cakes in a square shape). Weeks before the New year you could see scallions and carrots being dried in the heat on the streets as people get ready to make pickled onions and pickled carrots, a very popular dish eaten with Banh Chung. Xôi Gấc - Red Sticky Rice, is also commonly used as red means good luck. Among the savory dishes are the sweet treats such as Mức (colorful roasted sweetened coconuts), mức gừng (sweetened roasted ginger), bánh thuẫn (steamed cake). Most popular finger snacks are roasted nuts and watermelon seeds. 
           In the agricultural perspective, the Lunar New Year is held between the harvesting of the crops and the sowing of the next ones. Tet has a very special attached meaning to all Vietnamese. It is the time of year that family members come back to their hometown, visiting relatives, sing karaoke, and relaxing after a hard-working year. If you have the opportunity to visit Vietnam during the Tet holiday, this is a festive holiday you don't want to miss! It was our very favorite time of the year and our children loved getting red envelopes as we serve up big meals over a 2 weeks period. Tet is not a day, but several days of celebrations and festivities.  The streets are vibrant with colorful flowers and decorations. Businesses shut down for days so that everyone could be outside enjoying the gorgeous scenery, playing games like Tôm cua bầu cá gà nai with their Tet money, and relaxing.






 The streets are vibrant with colorful flowers and decorations.





 áo dài, a tunic made mostly of silk, worn by both sexes but most commonly worn by women.






mức gừng (sweetened roasted ginger)
 bánh thuẫn (steamed cake)

 




Sunday, September 15, 2019

November 2018 - JAPAN and KOREA

Holy cow I can't believe how behind I got.  So much has happened and Facebook and Instagram were just quick and easy to write. As I'm going through all the things in my house and sick of how much was acquired, I couldn't help but thought of all of our travels and how free it felt and wonderful it all was.  We could've bought a nice Tesla, a few grand pianos, or many many computers as Dan would put it, but we have the richest experiences and that's a whole lot cooler to talk about than those things.  I don't regret our decision at all.  I feel like we have so much more to talk to people about now. 

Japan felt like it was forever ago and it felt like a dream.  In a way it was.  We kept going back and forth and didn't know if we should do Osaka or Tokyo.  We finally opted for Osaka because from Vietnam it was slightly cheaper and when we go back to Vietnam in a few years our connecting flight would probably be Tokyo as that is a bigger airport.  I cannot express how much fun it was to be in Japan and see all the Fall colors.  The cherry blossoms would be pretty amazing but so are the Fall colors. 

We loved seeing this as simple as water fountains and yes drinking straight from the tabs.  Something we missed very much
Roro loved Japan because it had trains and beautiful parks to walk around


We got the kids tickets for a cute train ride around the Osaka castle



The thing I remembered most about Japan was all the food tours we did.  We had to eat anyway so we took the kids around to all the eateries that we know of and we tried all the authentic Japanese food offered.

 












Thanks to a husband who does not mind taking pictures of me for a few pictures for my #tailormemine website.  This bright new dress is for sale for $60.


We took the subway every where.  It was kept very clean and all over Japan it was very clean.


November in Japan reminded us a lot of November in Seattle.  It was slightly gray on some days and a bit chilly but it was so fun to see people walking around.
Mesmerizing night lights

We got a cute little Japanese hotel suite.  It was so authentic and I love that it had the shorter table and the Japanese doors to separate the bathroom and the bedroom.
Ooh the ramen here was so amazing.  Dan marked all the coordinates of the places we visited.





Firetrucks!!

This confident, stylish city is a shopping hub, with fabulous restaurants and nightlife.  It was so vibrant and you are just happy to be there.

 KOREA
I didn't want to leave Japan, nor did anyone else in the family.  We enjoyed Japan so much, enough to want to stay forever.  We really could have if we wanted to but we had friends in Gwangju.   And when we arrived in Gwangju it was just like how we felt in Japan.  Friends surrounded us and made us feel so loved.  I felt like I was with my brother.  Our friend's son looked so much like my brother Michael and it made me miss my brother Mike so much.  We got to attend the missionary farewell of Jeong who is currently serving in the Oakland area and who we just saw while we were in Oakland in August (more on this later)
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Seeing Korea with my long lost brother and my favorite Korean family in the whole wide world.
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 Gwangju is the sixth-largest city in South Korea.  They love big signs and bright lights.

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AND the COOLEST stairs.  Do you ever wonder why there are so many Korean made pianos??!!!  They make their stairs like a piano so you could stop and play your favorite song as you run down to take the subway.  Debrie performed a few pieces and had a good audience watching her.  I will hopefully get that onto youtube soon!
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We took the bus everywhere
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Our favorite family took us out to a nice buffet and we had the most amazing Korean food.
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We went all over Korea.  We took buses for 4-5 hours and went East to West, North to South.  I will stop here right now and save more of Korea for another post a bit later.  Sleep is everything...

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