Tuesday, December 15, 2015

October Part 3

October was still beautiful for pictures. I had a few more opportunities to take some pictures for some families. I spent some time updating my blogs. I'm now an author for 4 different blogs. I better stop there or else I will get too busy.
You can view my photography blog here: http://seastevensphotography.blogspot.com
I volunteered to keep everyone up to date on my brother and his mission by creating his mission blog for him and I take the time to translate them from English to Vietnamese for my parents and families in Vietnam to read them. I feel like this will help share the gospel in a more private setting since Vietnam does not allow you to proselyte. http://eldernguyensmissionblog.blogspot.com
And of course our personal website which is private and is just for families and close friends, with the exception of one month out of the year, Christmas time where we make it readable for a bigger group of friends. http://dtstevensnewsletter.blogspot.com

During all this time of scheduling my sessions with people, a friend of mine just bought a $4000 camera and wanted to test it out for her new portfolio. She having known me for a while asked if I could be her model for the Maternity portfolio. I accepted and we got a few pictures to share from that session.




When we got back in town after our 2 weeks vacation back East, I quickly got to work buying fabric and making our Halloween costumes. The kids wanted to be characters from Harry Potter because they've been reading with their daddy almost all of the Harry Potter books. I couldn't be more proud. Reena dressed as Hermoine Granger. Debrie dressed as Ginny Weasley. Ronin was our little Harry Potter. Dan was a Quidditch player and I'm his Golden Snitch. You have to be Harry Potter fans to get the Quidditch player and Golden Snitch theme, but it got raving reviews as the most clever of costumes on Facebook. Made me so happy
I had the idea of going on a walk near our home to collect sticks and twigs to make a broomstick. We found a big stick within 2 minutes of our walk and got many twigs. Dan spent some time while I taught music at the community Playgroup to make the broomstick. Turned out great I thought. He also made the girls some wands. We just Ro one that lights up. Thought he'd be less likely to poke himself or others with a fatter one.
 I put Dan to work on the scar.  He used my eyeliner.  A bit too dark but gosh this boy is so cute.  He wouldn't keep the glasses on though

 
With our matching costumes we headed to many different parties. Many had my craving...apple cider. I do believe that's where Darion packed in the pounds. More on this later.
 Reena and Debrie with their teachers at their school's Halloween party
 Debrie and her friend Mina from school
 
Dan doesn't care for the fact that his birthday is on Halloween, but for me it is the highlight. I made him a triffle cake that he often requests for his birthday. Peanut butter chocolate with reeses' cups


 Also joining us for his celebration was the Astles clan. I took their pictures so they came to get the images loaded up into their USB drive. Always so fun to have families come for a visit on your birthday, especially on a day that rained like cats and dogs. It was our first Halloween where it rained so much. That didn't damper the kids's spirits at all, just us wimpy adults. It did let up a bit while they went trick or treating but they were very glad that the Gryffindor cloaks have hoods and their scarves kept them warm also.

Ronin was very good at giving out candies.  I would say besides getting candies, giving them out was his favorite part.


 
After the trick or treating and giving out candies, we headed to a friend's house for more Halloween treats and goodies. More food and a movie for the kids. It is a very bad thing to still be pregnant around Halloween. The Fall is just not a good time to be pregnant. All the yummy fresh squeezed Cider, all the caramel apples and chocolate candies and sweet treats. I just couldn't resist.
I calculated that by the end of my pregnancy I would be putting on a total of 30-35 lbs. I was able to keep it at just that by the way for the record. Darion decided he'd take some extra few pounds for me so I wouldn't have to work it off on my own. Bless his heart.  I should've induced him weeks earlier but can't complain that he decided to come out so fast and easy (more on this later).  Thank you baby

 Reena carved the werewolf (also going with the Harry Potter theme) all by herself
 Brie decided on an owl (also Harry Potter) and had some help



Tuesday, December 8, 2015

October Part 2

The second part of October actually happened pretty early in the month. We got the kids to the doctor for their annual check up and flu shots. Everyone did very well. Ronin cracked the doctor up with his “it tickles” wherever she checked him. Reena is still way over average for height, a bit low on weight. Ronin and Debrie are about average.
With that checked off the list, car washed, house cleaned, we packed up our things and went to the airport. Our kids have known the airport more than any other kids I know. We seem to travel quite a bit and airplanes seemed to be a common thing, but this time for Ronin it was very thrilling. He loved looking out the window and seeing the trucks moving the luggage around and we were nervous that he would stay up the whole time. But once we started moving and after a movie, he fell asleep.


We arrived very late. It was midnight thirty, but my parents were so excited to see the whole family. We've met in Disneyworld, Lake Powell, and of course they've been to our house, but it was Ronin's first time at my parents' house. My sister and her family came first and brought some toys. We stayed up, played and ate until 3:00 AM, that's midnight our time. Yes, we ate. That's my family. I look forward to going to my parents' house because they are amazing cooks. They are very big into freshly organic made food. Look into their freezer and you'll hardly see anything. My dad was a cook for years and flavor is a big deal. Frozen food is not comparable and not on his list. I'm very much like him. Dan considers himself lucky to have fresh ingredients in his food because he hates cooking and I LOVE cooking. I spend 75% of my time in my kitchen. I was in heaven as I stuffed myself silly, which was very very bad for my goal of not gaining more than 35 lbs.



It didn't surprise me that we chose to go apple picking as part of the family activity. We went to Linvilla Orchard, one that my family loves going to every year around this time of year. My parents used to drive out to the suburb to get free range chickens and fresh eggs as well, but they've discovered a much closer place for those things. We picked and ate a variety of apples then we got some fresh apple donuts and apple cider. It was so crowded and the lines for the hayride was an hour long so we opted out of that one. The donuts and cider were worth every dollar. The kids got to see many different kinds squashes and gourds.












So eating is just what we like to do. On the way home my parents picked up some live crabs, then everyone got together and made food for my brother Mike's farewell. His farewell landed on a fast Sunday, so the bishop asked him to speak first and then his sisters bore their testimonies as well :). It was a very sweet and spiritual meeting for us. Afterward we had an open house type of party and a good number of people showed up to wish him well, many including our old piano teacher and youth leaders. It was a beautiful day.



Our time in Philly felt really short. Dan didn't want to leave Philly without his cheese steaks of course. That's the highlight for him. He and my brother and brother in laws went to a new place downtown to get their cheese steaks and brought back what I think is THE BEST donuts from the market for us. That was a highlight for me.


With that in our tummy we set off for Manhattan. This is where the journey on different modes of transportation started. We boarded the Megabus. It was the fanciest bus I've ever been on. They had a nice and clean toilet, tables and chairs for you to sit, relax and they have 2 levels. The kids were so excited to sit on the top level and see everything from a high view. The experience was overall very fun.

We arrived in Manhattan shortly after a 2 hour ride on the Megabus. We walked a few blocks, got on the subway, another exciting way to travel, especially for Ronin who loves trains. We arrived at my sister's apartment and again, were all in awe of the place. She lives on the 50th floor and has an amazing view of the Brooklyn bridge and surrounding area. It was breathtaking. It reminded Dan and I when we first arrived in Seattle and lived in the nice corporate housing for a few months. Dan immediately looked at options of possibly living in New York for a few months while working for Zillow because they have offices there. He's just like that. Adventurous is he.






I forgot my DSLR camera.  My phone was my only source.  These pictures don't do the justice of how awesome the view is from my sister's apartment.


We took just a day in Manhattan, not nearly enough. We got on the ferry boat to cross over to Brooklyn, walked the pier at night, ate some amazing New York style pizza, had some awesome milk shakes and half of us took an Uber home and the other half, the boys, crossed the Brooklyn bridge on foot and walked all the way home.

While there we also looked at shows but the shows listed for Monday were not as exciting. I was bummed about that but thankfully we had the chance to return to Manhattan. Before boarding the Megabus again for Albany, we walked to the 9/11 Memorial, Freedom towers. It was such a touching moment as we commemorate the day we saw/heard the terrifying news. As the water runs you can almost hear the voices of the people falling out of the buildings. We opted to not go inside the museum. My mom said it's very sad. The images and videos they show inside will make you cry she said. May we never experience anymore terrors like 9/11 again. 



With that we headed to New York's capital, really just to my sister's home. Albany was colder, but beautiful. The East coast is very colorful this time of year just like the Pacific Northwest. Albany didn't grab my attention as the most of anything, but it was wonderful to visit and see where my sister lives. Our time there was much too quick and most of the time we were trying to decide if we should rent a car or take the Amtrak to Buffalo, NY where we could possibly see Niagara Falls if time permits.
We decided that we would take the Amtrak since our kids have been asking for quite sometime now about going on a train from Seattle to Portland.

We boarded the Amtrak. Tears were shared. That would be the last time I see my brother before he heads to the MTC. I cried, a lot more than I normally do when we part. It was perhaps the pregnancy hormones that made it worse. Dan seeing me so sad said “let's extend our vacation”. He is not starting yet at Zillow anyway because his new boss is on vacation. So I did a search on Google for Delta Airline's phone number. This is where the mistake came. I got a number that is not directly Delta. They claim to work for Delta so I thought nothing of it. They charged us an extra $600 to change the flight and then an hour after called back and said the reservation had to be changed due to some technical difficulty and charged us another $150. I didn't agree with this and said to call me back when they can change the flight to where we need it to be, which is leaving out of Philly. To make the story short they went ahead and charged us $775 dollars and booked our flight leaving from Newark. I was very unhappy when I saw the receipt confirmation. At that moment I also realized that the receipt looked suspicious. That the people I called did indeed lie about being Delta. I had Dan call them on his phone. He asked and they said they were Delta. I decided to go on Delta's website to check again for a phone number for customer service, something I should've done in the first place rather than do a Google search and get a scammy third party. When I realized this I realized what a big mistake this whole thing was. Our train would not get us to Buffalo in time for the flight home anyway and Delta would have to help us find another flight home. I put aside the mix up and dealt with Delta and got our flight changed. They were understanding and got us on the next available flight a week later. Scored for staying longer with my family and having more time with my brother and also seeing a show at Broadway. Not cool is the next several hours on the phone straightening out the mix up with the third party I called. Fly Tech is the name of their company. Beware, they are scammers. I spent hours at the hotel in Bufflo trying to get my money back. It involved waiting for this manager, this department and that department, all made up I'm sure. We contacted our bank to report the fraudulent activity on our card by Fly Tech for that unauthorized charge of $775. I continued to wait to talk to their “very busy” supervisor and was told I would get a call back from him. I never did and the next several days I tried to put it aside and enjoy Niagara Falls and other things we did. More on this story later as I'm still waiting for the refund to show up in my bank. I'm told it will show up tomorrow. Hours on the phone hopefully will pay off for my mistake.



Niagara Falls. Wow! What a beautiful site. It couldn't have been a better day. It was warm and sunny but of course it was misty near the Fall so a sweatshirt was needed for all. It was all worth it. We even thought if we had to pay $775 extra for another week it would be worth it as well. But no extra charge is still nicer:) We spent a few hours walking around near the Falls and then paid a little extra for a close up tour. We got wet. It was such a beautiful experience.








We headed back to Albany with the intention of stopping in Palmyra but everyone was zonked out while Dan drove passed it. When I woke up we had long passed Palmyra so that'll be another trip. I've been there many times but the kids haven't seen it so we'll have to return there sometime. My sister was happy to see us again and she and I had a fun time playing Bunco with some ladies in her ward. We rented a car from Buffalo and then took another rental car from Albany to Manhattan again to see my other sister and her husband for a brief moment before they headed to Florida for Disney World. We took over their amazing apartment and we got to see Wicked on Broadway!!!! There is truly no better place to see Wicked than on Broadway. I was in heaven. Truly amazing. Because Gershwin theater only does Wicked, they had lots of time to rehearse and fine tune everything so that every part of the musical was absolutely fantastic. My brother was such a big help watching the kids for us. We enjoyed our 2 extra days in Manhattan.
 







The next 3 days were spent in Philly with my parents. Back on the Megabus, this time, lower deck with tables. If buses were more like this, I would ride it more often. Philly was a nice and toasty 70 degrees. It was so wonderful being with my parents and my brother before he heads to the MTC. Mike and Dan got some more cheese steaks and my mom and I went Christmas shopping and donut tasting with the girls. We had our final buffet meal, Mike's favorite thing to do, and then made our way home.

I had the chance to pop in on a friend and visited her and her twin boys as well.  

Our flight home was not as smooth as we had hoped. No adventure is ever smooth riding but that's what makes our family so fun. We embrace all craziness in the name of memory building, not too many families can do that. Our flight had a layover in Atlanta, Georgia. You might think, why Atlanta? Well, because that was the only available flight that had 5 seats. We got to Atlanta smoothly, but after a 2 hour layover we were informed our flight from Atlanta to Seattle had been suspended. The fraud department at Delta saw something suspicious about our reservation and saw how many times it was changed. Too bad that I gave those guys from Fly Tech too much information and they tampered with our flights too many times. Delta asked us to show our credit card that we used to purchase the flight and it turned out that our credit card did not match the one on file. Because? Well those guys used their credit card to pay for the flight difference which was $15 per passenger to change the airport location and then they turned around and charged us $775. Hence, the last credit card was theirs. OMG I was so mad, but even madder was Dan. He called them up and for the first time in my life I heard words that came out of my husband's mouth that his mother would not approve of. More time had to be spent investigating where the root of the problem was and Delta again was very kind to put us on the next available flight. Our kids were restless. They wanted to be home. But we had to wait an extra 2 ½ hours and we didn't get in 'til 1:00 AM. Our friend Travis was kind enough to pick us up from the airport. We were very grateful and glad that I've been giving his daughters voice lessons so he was kind enough to return the service. The guys from Fly Tech told us they would refund us the charge of $775. We are still waiting on this refund and will update you soon! What a crazy ride it was but looking back we were so glad to have stayed. Dan loves New York so much he wants to take our family there to live for a Summer and he has been obsessed with the idea of possibly retiring in his 50's so he could travel more. He's been looking into investments, almost nonstop :) He loved having almost 2 months off and has loved all the time he had with the kids. He enjoys waking up without an alarm, making food for the kids and getting them ready for bed. I've been milking every part of it, too of course!



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