Thursday, January 14, 2016

November 2015



Back to the days of typing with one hand and one hand holding a baby.  It seems it wasn't that long ago that I had to do this :)
  Much to catch up since the last post and much happened in November.  November was the month of our baby's birth and it was much anticipated by our children.  Our girls got into knitting bc a friend of mine was giving away all her yarn.  The girls were busy making warm hats for their brother.  They saw their cousins at Annie's baptism and bragged all about their new brother arriving soon.  Sure enough it happened 13 days after.
A Tour for Us

Dan started his new job at Zillow this month after a month and half using up all his vacation time at Amazon and some time in between. He had a hard time going back to work but enjoys the new view he gets from the 32nd floor. We got to see his new place and enjoyed some treats. They have way too much good stuff it's hard to avoid them.
Amazing view of Puget Sound from Dan's office
 The 360 view of downtown Seattle from Dan's office
 They have a fun game room

They share the same building as the Art Museum

 Zillow's Tech Day

The girls got the first exposure to Dan's new work place. They had a Kid's Tech day so Dan took them to it. Reena made a computer game and Debrie made a bunch of cool electronic models. They were treated a lunch and ice cream for treats.





 Zillow is just the awesomest company just for things like this.  They sent us some welcoming baby gifts and the $1000 gift card is nice too.  Not to mention I got a Surface Pro and nice new phone from their bonus. 

The first part of November was very wet but the second part of November was warm and sunny

My tummy towards the end.  Everyone getting anxious for baby Darion
I threw in one more shopping trip for Holiday decor

Here I am at the last OB visit.  2 days before Darion came

 And then it was...welcoming baby Darion to Earth, to LIFE!!  Here is his birth story:
 
By now you know that Darion came to this world making a statement. He weighed in at a hefty 11 lbs 22 inches. The doctor never mentioned anything about how big he might be at any of my appointments. I put on about 30 lbs so I wasn't clued in. All I can guess is that perhaps I got a bit carried away with the sugar intake. The Halloween candies and fresh squeezed apple cider were simply irresistible and my babies love sugar! His birth experience was wonderful though. It was the most relaxing birth as compared to my others. Ronin's and Debrie's were natural childbirths and there was agonizing pain involved. This one, I made sure I went to the hospital early and by early I meant before I felt pain. My doctor measured me at a 3-4 on Friday November 20th and asked me to go to the hospital for her to break my water on Sunday the 22nd. I went to church, sang with the choir, had Dan and the kids dropped me off at the hospital after church. I checked in, got treated for testing Strep B positive, which I learned that a lot of women carry and don't even know about and is easily treated with antibiotics before delivering. After I checked in I ordered a delicious hospital meal (salmon burger on sourdough bread – now my fav) and the doc arrived after antibiotics were given for a couple of hours, broke my water at 7:00 PM. I called Dan soon after and he arrived at 7:30 and at 9:40 I was ready to push. My Doc went home thinking it would be a while so they told me to not push until she gets back. Wha???? I was not happy with that but nonetheless I got my epidural so no pain no rush. I waited until 10:00, pushed for about 4 times and out came baby Darion. He looked chubby but so did my other kids. They placed him on my chest and we guessed about 8 lbs 10 or 15 ounces like his brother and sisters. The nurses thought we were low, thinking he was more. They brought him over to the scale after being on my chest for a while and everyone was shocked, especially Dan and I. We thought the scale was wrong. We didn't believe our eyes. 10 lbs 15.9 ounces. How??? He wasn't short either. 22 inches. What a good size baby. My doctor was even amazed he came out to quick and easy. Everyone was praising me and my good hips but I felt sick inside that he was so big. They said you should be proud! My doctor said she just delivered a baby C-section because the mom wasn't able to push her baby out and the baby was 6 lbs 11 ounces. Ok, at that moment I did feel like a trophy mom although I did not mean to make a statement. Darion will go down in history as the biggest baby born in both the Stevens side of the family as well as the Nguyen's and around all of our friends. No I do not personally know anyone that delivered an 11 lbs baby. The closest was my friend Ali with a 10 lbs 3 oz baby just a few weeks before me. 

With that bang of a delivery it just feels good to be almost back to my pre-pregnancy body. He took a third of my weight gain! Dan is thrilled to have our number 4 be a boy to even us out and it took a while for me to convince him to agree to the name Darion but after pointing out that Darion will make the names of our kids look like this 2 R's and 2 D's make R2D2. What Star Wars fan does not think that is so cool??? I love my Reena, Debrie, Ronin, and Darion and I might agree with Dan that 4 kids is the perfect number. Not too small and not too big of a family. We could still travel and see the world and not be so broke or have eyes stare you down for having too many kids.






 So pleased to be in sissy's arms


 He is full of cheeks and we are definitely enjoying them!!!


 The day Darion was coming home from the hospital.  He was able to keep his neck up.  This kid is not fat, he is just SOLID.  Everyone said he is like a 3 month old
 My Roro loves his brother.  He grew up over night.  Seeing him next to his brother made me cry.  It was such a sweet tender moment.  He was so gentle with the baby, stroking to calm the baby down and giving him kisses.  He was jealous when baby was in mama's hands but he sure loves his brother.  Whenever Darion fusses, Ronin is first to warn me that "Darion's sad mom" and rushes to the baby to tell him "it's ok" and “I want to hold Darion (Dar yon)”




THANKSGIVING!!!

                            

 The only part of cooking a Thanksgiving meal I contributed this year was giving my brother in law my recipe.  He did a fantastic job and I got to carve the turkey.  I sat back on the couch and enjoyed the work of wonder from my wonderful visitors

 Cheeks, cheeks and more cheeks for dessert.  I love a big baby.


To say thank you for everything that my sister, brother in law, and mother did for us, we treated them and the girls to a musical at a nice theater in town.






My sister Thanh and brother-in-law Alex are wonderful. They have been there soon after every birth of each of my children to help out. They were such a big help on the Thanksgiving meal this year. They made pies with the kids and cooked and cleaned. We could not have had such a wonderful Thanksgiving dinner without them. And my mother, what a fantastic and incredible woman she is. Oh I love her dearly. She knows how much I love a clean house so she cleaned every part of the house and does such a good job being grandma when she isn't cleaning. I owe my life to her.




Back at his weight and a little more at 1 week check up

Could not get enough of this face.  Reena, Debrie, and Ronin fight over who gets to hold him
Full van full house.  We are very happy

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